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Killing me softly

Clive Griffiths
Clive Griffiths
— 1 min read

Are you killing the impact of your pitch?

The wrong move.

Someone asks you to pitch.
You open the deck.

Slide two: your credentials.
Slide three: your methodology.
Slide four: your case studies.
Slide five: your team.

And somewhere around slide six,
the client checks their phone.

They've checked out.

You've spent twenty minutes
talking about yourself.

But they came to hear about them.

Their industry.
The pressures they face.
The changes required.

I write this as someone who has sat on both sides of the table.
The 'me, me, me' pattern is exhausting.

Clients want you to show them you understand their problem.
Confusing that with the brag-fest costs you the work.

Here's what works instead.

1/ Explain why change is necessary.

Name the pressure they're already feeling.
Not manufactured urgency. Real urgency.
If you've done your homework, they will feel understood
before you've proposed a single thing.

2/ Reveal why they need to change now.

What's the cost of procrastination?
What window exists today that closes tomorrow?
Now you're into a business hypothesis.
Not a pushy sales presentation.

3/ Why this approach?

Not a "why us" pitch.
Why our thinking works, for this problem, at this time.
Make your logic so transparent
the client starts using your language too.

The best pitch wins because it makes clients feel seen.

Do yours make them feel seen?

Seems many don't.
And that's worth fixing.

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