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You'll be surprised how thinking habits hold you back.

Clive Griffiths
Clive Griffiths
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You'll be surprised how thinking habits hold you back.
Especially when you're not even conscious of them.

Take a simple limiting belief like:

"I need to have all the answers before I move forward."

How does that lead to moments of resistance where you find yourself avoiding pitching to senior decision-makers without a perfect deck? Or second-guessing yourself on sharing strategic ideas before they're fully formed?

Until, and unless, you identify these corrosive thinking patterns and process them you're at the mercy of outdated programming. And you can be sure you aren't fulfilling your potential.

The key to change is first noticing and recording the times you feel resistance. Look for patterns, identify the underlying belief, then decide what empowering belief should replace it.

That's harder than it looks - even more so if you try to rewire your thinking on your own.

But, for the intrepid, it's possible.
Here's one of the ways I've achieved this with clients:

Close your eyes and ask yourself, "when did I first learn this belief?"
Let your mind take you back to the earliest moment you can recall.
A specific situation, a voice, a feeling.

See your younger self in that moment.
Now step back and bring what you know now -
Your experience, capability, and perspective - into that scene.

What does your younger self need to hear or understand differently?
What resource or insight would change how they interpreted that moment?

Mentally offer them that. Let them integrate it. Watch the belief shift at its origin point.

Then walk forward through your timeline with the updated belief in place, noticing how past situations look different now, and how future challenges feel more possible.

This isn't easy to do alone.
But how will your performance change when you've cracked this?

And of course the right coach makes the process a lot faster and easier.

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